Farewell Dinner

23 12 2005
I really thought that the night of December 22 would be a terrible night for me. I have to go to 3 simultaneous events that night! I thought ‘Good luck!’ Hehe. There was the Christmas dinner party with my college friends, the movie night out with my SFC group and then the despedida party of my AAT bud, Mike. I had to let go of the movie night because they wanted it in Gateway mall. I was able to persuade my AAT friends to have the despedida in Greenbelt so that I was able to divide my time to get the best of both events. Yehey to me!

I actually want to put the spotlight on Mike’s farewell. I left Seafood Club and got to Fish & Co just in time for the main program. I was pleasantly surprised that ALL the ATT guys are there, including the non-office members! This rarely happens to us lately because there usually is someone missing on a particular event. Come to think of it, we never had an AAT outing where all of us are present. We’re usually missing a person or two for different reasons. But I guess last night was different – we were all there not just to have fun but we were there for a good friend.

The main program of the night was when we lit up a candle, said our farewell message to Mike, and then gave our gifts to him. Everybody was smiling and accommodating; partly trying to hide the tinge of sadness we were feeling. The mood was mellow-dramatic and the messages were purely honest. It’s not very usual that we enter a company thinking that we’re there purely to work but then find people who will transcend the confides of the office space and share our life-memories with. That was AAT for us. It made working enjoyable and tolerable at times.

With Mike signing off, I really do not know what is its effect on the dynamics of our group. He was there from the start – vehemently organizing and participating in all our ATT outings in the beginning. In those trips, he always finds a way to juice out all the personal details of our lives. We might have hated it at first but that was the bridge that brought us closer to one another. We exceeded being just co-workers and started being good friends. Case in point is Sean & Omi (need I say more?! Hehe)

Even at the office, Mike was a loud voice. And I mean that literally. He never fails to express all his thoughts and feelings disregarding or maybe purposely including other people who might hear him. He always had strong opinions on everything, specially management decisions and policies. Hehe. Most of us will admit to being embarrassed at times by his loud opinionated mouth but for the most part, we are secretly glad that he expressed those things out in the open – things that would have been suppressed if not for his nonchalant attitude. We might not admit it totally but Mike sometimes becomes our own voice in the office. He becomes the microphone of the group. We have a lot of office talks in AAT and everybody knows the sentiment of everybody else. So I’m sure that most of what he says is influenced by other people in the group and thus their sentiments as well.

Well that is Mike for us (or at least the ones I am able to write; this is getting too long!) He is one hell of a colorful character! It’s either you love him or you hate him! No in-betweens! Of course you know where AAT stands right?! Hehe

Apart from these there’s a couple more things that Mike is – a father and a husband. These are probably the 2 main roles that lead to his resignation. He not only dreamed for himself but for his family as well. He will not only work for his own but also for his wife and little daughter. That side of Mike, we all respect and bow to. For the courage to take your destiny into your own hands, the strength to endure the loneliness in a foreign land and the determination to give your family the best life that they deserve, you are the man!

So Mike, here’s to your good life ahead! Good luck on your new job! Show those bastards what a Filipino can do! We will miss you and God bless to you and your family! Cheers!

PS: Give us your new email address so we can send you our resume when we’re ready. Haha! ;p





Stag Party

20 12 2005

Two of my friends in the community are getting married on Wednesday. Congratulations to them!

As part of the pre-wedding rituals, the men had their stag party last Sunday. Although I am a person who usually fills my blog entries with descriptive words of all my experiences, I am shutting up this time! I want to stay alive and worry-free in the coming days so my lips are sealed! I only have one thing to say about our stag party: It was authentic.





Christmasy

20 12 2005
I haven’t really felt that it’s the Christmas season. This is probably due to the tons of non-Christmas things that I have to deal with before I can feel the holidays. There are the never-ending office requests that apparently only I can address because of the functional requirements in delivering them. There are the News Bureau deadlines that all needs to be done ASAP (did I mention that I’m starting to hate these four letters?) And then there are the chapter concerns that only heads get to bear because we want the members to enjoy their newbie stages as to not easily burn.

I guess Christmas just started for me last Saturday. For the first time in quite a long time, I was fully relaxed. I didn’t need to worry about work because I was already on leave then. All the people bugging me to write articles for the sector suddenly became quiet. I didn’t need to concern myself on any Christmas party program because I will only be a participant enjoying all the events. It was good that I had time for myself.

The day started with the SAGIP Christmas party in the morning. I rarely have a chance to visit the SAGIP kids in our GK site and that was the perfect opportunity to see them again. The fun was simple but penetrating. I witnessed the little miracles of God when what used to be a primary concern of the facilitators became an overflowing abundance – gifts for the kids. There was the one coming from our chapter, from the other chapter taking care of the site, and another kind-hearted sponsor. Wow! Seeing all those smiles and radiant energy coming from these kids reminded me why I was serving Gawad Kaling in the first place – to give back to this country that has been very good to me. I was reminded that what we here do matter to this people and that we are affecting lives little by little, step by step and one by one. That was a good way to start the day.

That day ended with another Christmas party – our chapter’s. They wanted it done in our house and I was just so willing to show the new paint job and garden decorations done! Haha! I was excited preparing knowing that all the new SFC members of our chapter are coming and have prepared tremendously for their group presentations. Their enthusiasm is infectious! The night was a blast. Everybody was laughing their hearts out and having so much exuberance participating in the games, presenting, getting on conversations, giving gifts and greeting each other. It was a whole five hours of Christmas night for me!

Christmas may have come late for me but it surely came with a big bang!





Random Thoughts

6 12 2005
Our CLP is through…. at last! We were able to graduate 12 lucky people!

Got my 13th month bonus…. now it’s gone…. haha!

I haven’t started creating the articles for the Operetta. I hope to finish them soon before the Dec 22 deadline.

Preparations for our chapter Christmas party in underway; I hope that the program is fun

My SFC brother, Ryan, is now a household head….. Good luck to him!

My AAT kapamilya, Mike, is resigning soon….. Good luck to him if ever!

I can’t wait to be on leave and rest for the holidays…..

Our house looks extra fine because of the new paint job.

I’m planning on buying something big next year…. stay tuned….

I found out that I will be on Release 3 of our project…. new challenges at last!

I am infatuated again…. Sorry, I won’t tell…. ;p

Bought a new phone…. but not a new model…..

My katambayans are planning to go to Shanghai next year… I hope I get the resources needed…..

My former colleague in Chicago got promoted to Manager….. Congrats to her!

My desktop is still in safe mode…. I’m thinking it might really have a virus…. have to hand it for inspection.

I can’t wait to be on training starting this Thursday…. just to break the monotony…..

My friend, Raymond, just celebrated his birthday…. Happy birthday pal!

I already bought new pants, shirts, bags, and cologne for myself this Christmas….

I really would like to get to know her better…. did I mention I am infatuated?! Haha!